One time, I discussed something with a newly retired friend. I asked him to do it quickly. He said with indifference: "What are you in a hurry? A lot of time. Retired!"

 

I am a little surprised: "Retired, people are old, and the duration of life is not short?"

 

He said happily: "Yes, the duration of life is short, but the time that belongs to oneself is much more."

 

What he said is not without reason. Calculated again, and sure enough, working seven or eight hours a day, not counting overtime. In addition to taking a nap for three meals a day, it is really not a lot of dominance, plus entertainment, reception, etc., it’s just like an arrow, you have to say time, you have to squeeze it out. As a popular saying goes: "Where did the time go?" This is a retirement, although the people are old, but free, and every day of the week, Zhou Zhou Golden Week, can you not be happy?

 

We continue to talk. The friend said: Time is very strange, both actuarial and sensational. The human activity has a longitudinal spatial axis and a horizontal time axis forming a coordinate system. According to Newton, time is the most absolutely evenly distributed to everyone. No one can take up more, no one has to worry about being deprived. But time is also related to people's feelings. Different people feel different and different life feelings are different. I don't know if you have this experience? When you are very busy all day long, you are very busy, there are a lot of officers, and when you look back, you will feel very fulfilling and effective, as if you have spent a lot of time. On the contrary, doing nothing all day long, even if it is a long day, but every day, boring and monotonous, will soon feel that time is like a stream of water.

 

I am right. It is like traveling. It has been through generations of generations, and I have seen mountains and rivers. Even in ten days, there are four seasons, but it seems to be far and far in the time tunnel. But when a person idles to spend his days, the days go by.

 

"In this case, I don't think people who are still working don't think that they only have time to control. If they think of career and work as meaningful things, they feel that they are full and calm, and that time is their own. Don't lament that there is not much time, do it well, and it will also radiate brilliance, but don't think that there is a lot of time, you can just squander and do nothing, let it sneak away on the mahjong table day and night, killing fear and depression in life. Among them, we should regard every day we have seen as the youngest day in the rest of our lives,” said a friend.

 

A friend said that the Chinese called time "the old man of time" and the "Santa Claus" in the West is a matter of course. Time is never old, nothing can resist the time, generations of people take turns, and time is still there to step by step. There is a popular song called "Time to Cook Rain", saying that time is like the evaporating rain, not returning, cruelly passing. But time is a magician, and the biggest skill is change. Turning white clouds into dogs, let things be human. Let the diligent succeed and make the lazy life resent. Time is still a broad container, forgives the unforgivable, and has passed the past. If you have any dissatisfaction in your life, you will regret it in time and always have time. Time is a strict sieve, and eventually it will rid all the sediments; it is a savvy examiner, who is better and worse, who is clear in time and who is not. Therefore, each of us should submit a response to the satisfaction of ourselves and the world in time.

 

I said: OK!